RotweillerofJustice wrote:Actually I'm having a wandering spouse issue and need to keep a tab on things. Not overly concerned about the legal implications of data protection at this moment in time. Just want to know what she is sending to the third party involved.
IF anyone can help I strongly suggest they do not reply in open googleable internet forum and think about it first.
a) I only have your internet word that it is your wife rather than more vulnerable humans.
b) I don't know what you may or may not do based on anything revealed through any such help.
c) If your doing this its kind of the big red button for divorce already(hopefully ...only)...and I don't want to get dragged into that.. if she can show you've made this thread it could look very bad for you in family court ,
http://www.divorceaid.co.uk/legal/process.htm - link- she *may* have committed A, but in looking so hard you have left big footprints that you have given her grounds for B- you might even ask a mod to delete the whole thread.
d) It would almost certainly be illegal and everyone would be watching it unfold- which would be bad for the sites rep and possibly any civil actions your wife took against us.
sim cloning would still almost certainly not provide you with what you want.(and is V illegal)
Landline stuff using a PC?-
http://www.ofcom.org.uk/static/archive/ ... rvfaq3.htmIf you want to put a chastity belt on your mrs about the 'best' you can do phone wise is convince her into agreeing to having a 3rd party consumer end gps tracker enabled on her phone,and her having her phone on her and showing you her fully itemised bill at the end of the month-totally showing your hand(which spy type divorce people say you shouldn't do).+ a discreet keylogger/netnanny on
your home PCs.(look em up on the internet)
However 2nd hand pay as you go mobiles bought by people specifically for secret things are everywhere, you may only see the good set of books so to speak.
I'm afraid I'm not 'on your side'(known too many paranoid coke head boyfriends who took golf clubs to their partners and I'm afraid I'm instantly assuming your there), I'd
strongly suggest a world more talking and if not that at least, for
your own long term survival, to yes take into account the future legal implications of your actions,and written words and sit on a rock for a while considering what results of your current dilemma you can find realistic 'best' and 'acceptable'...realistic best is not.."HaHa, see I have photos!!", "Why brad I was a fool and you've shown such devotion in your spying techniques, have back my heart!!"
Example- a friend married straight after uni, wife had a virus in her brain forgot last 4 years of life..she started seeing a bloke she was seeing prior to him..whole neighbourhood strongly took their side because the lothario was more local.My friend moved out.Bedsit, crap for while..picked self up, gets good child access, cross at idea he has to pay maintenance,but finds end 'acceptable'.